This is a load of horseshit, no you should never ever send this messageto anyone. I was in a relationship where i thought ‘oh i will never leave this woman’ where i on purposely tried to stay with her. When times were tough and i was being emotionally abused and black mailed by said woman i still stuck beside her because i promised her i would not leave. I went through abuse and torment. It affected me mentally staying with this person so no. What this should fucking read is ‘if you treat him right he will treat you right and will have no reason to leave’. This message promotes the mentality of it is okay to treat guys like crap at times cause if they love us they will stay with us. NO that is not fair nor okay. Rant over.